Why Working With Me Means No Filters, No Shame, and Total Freedom to Be Real.
There’s something I hear often from clients, usually after they’ve hesitated, looked away, or prefaced something with “This might sound awful…” It’s this: “I can’t say this to anyone else.” Then they say the thing. The raw truth. The anger, the resentment, the fear, the envy, the deep grief, the moment they felt something they “shouldn’t” have felt.
And I want you to know something: You can say it to me. All of it. Without apology. Without editing. Without shame. I am unshockable.
Before becoming a coach, I worked in frontline healthcare, in A&E and high-pressure hospital wards, and secure homes where I spent countless hours listening to people during some of the most overwhelming moments of their lives. Not just patients, but relatives too. Parents who were hanging on by a thread. Families trying to make sense of the chaos. People who didn’t know where to put their fear, guilt, sadness, or anger.
That kind of work teaches you to really hear people, not just the words, but what’s underneath them.
So now, as a coach, I bring that same grounded presence to every session. I don’t flinch when you cry. I don’t recoil when you rage. I don’t judge when you admit something you think makes you “a bad mum,” or “a selfish person,” or “too emotional.”
You’ve filtered yourself for too long, for your family, your boss, your friends, your kids. You’ve played nice, stayed quiet, minimised your feelings, and swallowed your needs.
But here’s the difference when you work with me: This is your space. No masks. No edits. Just the truth, messy, gorgeous, human truth. I’m not here to fix you. I’m not here to shame you. I’m here to hold space for you — all of you — while you work out what you want, who you are, and how on earth to move forward from whatever is breaking your heart or wearing you down.
So if you’re tired of holding it all in… If you’re exhausted from pretending you’re fine… If you’re ready to say the things you’ve never said out loud… Come. Sit down. Let’s talk. I’m not going anywhere. And I can take it.